Have you ever said this to your partner? Or had your partner say it—or one of its oh-so-many variants, listed below—to you? “You’re always trying to control me!” “Are you ever going to stop ...

Dear Amy: I wonder if my expectations are too high, or if my wife is controlling me? I do not feel welcome in my own house. Every week my wife asks me for my schedule (I am retired) for the coming ...