I’ve spent the last 25 years since I transitioned being spoken about by lawmakers, by media, by people who have never met me but feel entitled to decide what my life means. The pressure to explain, ...

I watch Drag Race. I wear floral prints. My husband and I have been married for a decade. I am, by most measures, a fairly typical effeminate gay man. Though I happen to be trans. Masculinity is ...

Men have long felt compelled to publicly perform masculinity, and when they don’t conform, they pay the price, whether through bullying, self-induced shame, or social isolation. In short, the pressure ...